Hi my love how are you? So we’ll talk about reflection. The reflection, what comes from the other is a reflection of what we are giving ourselves. We have already spoken and if some videos, but it is important to us, sometimes we have another look, a new perspective, to understand that sometimes when something bad comes from the other, we soon think the world is being unjust, the universe is being unjust, and in fact the universe is being extremely strict, because that’s the only way he can show you, what you’re missing, do you understand?

 If the other is not treating well, it is because you are not treating yourself well, if the other is humiliating you, you are humiliating yourself, if the other does not trust you, it is because you do not trust you, if someone else wants being close to you is because you do not want to be around you, so in fact, what looks bad is a loving form of the universe speaking like this, “Hey wake up!” What are you giving up on you? Why are you looking in the other for what only you can give to you? Only you can save yourself, only you can get up, only you can take the first step, only you can go forward, the other can not do it for you, he can not, he does not have the resources to do it for you, only you can.

 And then the other begins to give back to you what you are giving yourself, incredible as it may seem. Look, it makes an experience of a small thing, it begins to the little ones to treat itself better, to say things like I am stupid, I can not, I am incompetent, that meleca of person I am, what drug of personnel that I am, erring again , to say these phrases to you, starts there. There is already something going to change. What do you like to do that has a long time you do not? What place do you like to go that has a long time that you will not? Are you taking care of yourself? Are you feeding properly? Have you been doing any physical activity? Are you sleeping right? Are you treating yourself well? Would you treat someone you love the way you are treating yourself?

These are the questions you need to ask, these are the questions you need to ask, if you start to treat yourself well, you do not have to invest in the other to treat you otherwise because you have no power over the other, it does not help, you do not change the other, but you change you, and of course everyone changes around you, for you. Do the experiment, to find yourself a crap and see the beautiful and incredible person that you are, and you will see that people will not have no way to see, okay, my love?