Hi, my love, how are you? Today I will talk about a topic that was a person who asked to speak. When you keep the relationship on behalf of your children, a relationship sucks, it no longer exists, but you say you do not separate to preserve your children. If your relationship is not good, it is you who need to look, perceive and evaluate it, this is a step, no, this relationship has already given what it had to give, it is not good, or else it is too bad, anyway, this you need to evaluate.

Now, if it is too bad, keep this up because of the children, because you have children, you need a very, very affectionate look, because depending on the level of that relationship you will destroy more of your children than if you separated. And that’s a fact, and that’s one thing if you talk to any psychologist, especially psychologists who serve teens and children they’ll tell you that. Often keeping a bad relationship on behalf of your children is an excuse that you give to yourself, because you do not have the courage to end this relationship, you do not have the courage to move on, and when I say that I’m not talking bad about you, it’s easy to have the courage to decide, it’s over, it’s over, this relationship has already been where it had to go, it’s very difficult to do it, it’s very difficult to have that courage, it’s very difficult to have the courage to resume taking life on the hands and create a better story, and that’s okay.

We’ve talked about it, if you need to, if you recognize, seek help, now, do not use your children, do not use your children to maintain this relationship, your children can not hear the fights, do not see the conflicts, but they perceive all on a very subtle level, and that destroys them, because we think that as a child, a teenager does not have the maturity to absorb that, he may not even be seeing, but he is realizing it is everything, not on a conscious level, but not on the unconscious level the damage is the same. What your child needs is the same thing you need, your partner needs, the right to a healthy life, and a life can be healthy even when the parents are no longer together.

What you have to keep in mind, is a life of love, a healthy life, if your relationship has salvation, invest in it, if it is possible to nourish your relationship, make it bud again, blossom again, bora, bora in that, if it is not possible anymore, then you have to see what you are going to do, it could be that you say so, I will not stay right here, but not on behalf of your children do not use your children to keep being relationship, you will destroy your children much more than preserving, much more than giving a healthy life for them, okay my love?

 So this is a message that I am writing today, because you deserve much more than that, if you are seeing this, that I also do not know how to know, your children deserve much more than that, your unconscious knows what is doing, and will carry that guilt. So, choose or invest in that relationship, but do not take life in the warm, you deserve much more than that, you should not stay there feeling so small as to be content with it, remember the video of being content with little, to make do with it, you’re surviving, you deserve to live, I believe you?