Hi my love how are you? Today we will talk about the pain that hurts and the pain that heals, because understanding that difference will make all the difference in your life. Many times when we end a relationship, when we separate, end, end the relationship, the most natural is that it hurts, it hurts a lot, it hurts intensely, many people live in a great period of great pain, this is called mourning , you are in mourning, because you had a major loss, a loss of someone important, who was by your side, divided moments, so you will have pain? Go, you’re going to have pain.

 Do not have a pill that you take today and tomorrow change the pain, will get pain, but if you understand the difference this pain gets a little easier to lead you, lead your life after separation, because if you separated, the relationship it was not good, in fact it was probably bad enough to get to the point of separating, usually a couple tries to save a relationship before it’s over, so it was really bad, if it was really bad, it hurt, of course, if was a bad relationship was hurting, and if it was hurting you imagine your hand and pins injuring your hand, that was the pain you were feeling, comparatively.

 The wound is being made, a wound is being made every day, every moment, every thrust, every attempt, every frustration and so it was hurting, when you part, it hurts, it is hurt, there you get it and put on a compress, an ointment, a medicine and every time you do it it hurts too, but it’s the pain of healing, it’s not the pain of the wound anymore. You need to understand and realize this so that you can deal better with the pain, it’s okay it hurts, it hurts because it’s healing for it when I say so, separated separated, cut the bond, let go, leave the past behind is because every time that you have a contact, an approach, a look you hurt a little bit then, you are giving medicine, but it is hurting too, so sometimes you have no choice and then it will take longer to heal, but most of the time you have option, then just understand that this pain is the pain of healing.

That you’ll see it hurts, but it’s for good reason, so take it in, love yourself, what do you do when you’re giving someone you love? All right, it’s going to pass, it’s over, it’s okay. That’s what I want to tell you, it hurts, but it’s for your sake, it’s going to happen, I believe in you, I’m rooting for you, I know it hurts, but I also know it will pass, I know it’s going You get much better there on the other side.