Today we will meet the request of Valéria Brito. Valeria Brito said: “And when people live together, but it seems that people are separated?” Because I have not had the attention of my partner, my partner.

I’m feeling a plant in the corner. Valeria has something wrong. Because when you give yourself attention and give yourself love, even if the other does not give you anything, you will not feel a little plant in the corner. Now at the same time this is a process. I follow your comments, you are a person who invests in himself and is improving every day. So breathe that this is a process. And when you begin to pay close attention, the other begins to move too.

Now, you have a relationship, if there is not a bad deal, an abuse in that relationship you need to yes, think and breathe many, many times before “I will finish and end this relationship.” What made you fall in love with that person? Certainly at first it was not so. What has changed over time? And it may be that the person is accommodated.

How many conversations have you had about this? There is a mistake the couples commit that is to speak, to touch on certain subjects exactly when the thing is exploding around that subject. You do not talk about something at the moment it’s exploding. You take a quiet moment, a moment of peace and sit down to talk about it.

I miss you, it’s not good for me, I do not feel happy … Now, it’s another option, too: be a walking plant. It is true. What can you do instead of waiting for the other to look at you? This contributes to love for oneself. This contributes to the movement. This ends up hit and messing with the other. Instead of standing here waiting for the attention of the other, I’ll do something I like.

Take a dance class, a Yoga class, a walk, a trail, ride a bike, go out with friends, go to the movies … I do not know. What you enjoy doing? That too I say put the new in life.