Is it possible to live together and also separate?
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Today I’m bringing video that is a theme that was requested by Tiago Reis.
It’s a really interesting subject.
He speaks like this: Can you live apart and be happy? Can a couple date, live apart and be happy together?
This depends very much on what is possible for each one of the beliefs that each one carries within oneself.
In thesis it is possible yes. There are several couples who adopt this practice. Married couples on paper, with children, even with grandchildren.
The actress Rosa Maria Murtinho for example, she lives … I do not know, I think she’s 50 years older than Mauro Mendonça, if I’m not mistaken and they live separated for a long time in separate houses. Today, they sleep in separate rooms.
There’s a really cool side to it, when you’re committed to it.
When you put a look at the adventure of dating: I want to date forever this is very cool.
When you have neither honesty nor truth: I want to live apart because in fact, deep down I do not want to be with you, there it will never work.
It’s not the fact of being apart, you know? This “character” is going to make it not work.
But it can be very good, it depends on the belief of each one. If you believe for example that it’s cool, that’s going to be spice up the relationship, it’s going to be wonderful, you’re going to date forever, but your partner or your partner says like this: “It’s not possible for me.” then it will not work.
Think of something the two of you come across, but if the two of you come across, wow!
There’s a lot of cool in a relationship like this, it’s like dating forever. Where you act with truth, act with love, dedication and you end up spending a lot of time together, but every once in a while you have your space to stay.
This can be very healthy, okay?
I hope I have answered the question of James.
In fact, this saves many relationships. As long as it is not a game, but have love, character and freedom.
A kiss!