How to invest in your own qualities.

Hi my love how are you? Today I came to talk about how difficult it is to say “I am good”. We attach a lot of recognition to our own value to arrogance, and that is not true, but culturally we learn that we have to be modest, and that you can not be exalting your qualities.

 Actually, the person who recognizes his or her own value and quality is not very natural for her to be exalted. No, this does not happen naturally, it is now natural for her to recognize, “No, I am good at it.” hard to admit “I’m good,” it happens from you to you, you’re going to look, and you’re going to say, I’m not so good here, it’s like you need not be so good to be able to improve, and that’s not connected.

Recognizing your own value is what changes your life, your history, what changes your relationship with yourself, and if you change your relationship with yourself from the whole world relation of things, circumstances with you, changes the relationship of that comes to you. It is very natural, sometimes I go to work with a person, I am in care, and I am going to work the qualities of this person, I perceive clearly the difficulty that this person has, sometimes, to recognize and to speak, the person, sometimes , begins by speaking of his own qualities as if he were apologizing, begins by speaking of his own qualities, thus justifying: “at least it is what others say, right,” is what others say. “No, it is what you are. And you need to look at it with clarity and honesty, my love, if you do not look at it with clarity and honesty, no one will look.

 If you do not recognize, do not assume your qualities, your values ​​how can the other see? You have to see, to recognize, because when you see and recognize, you nourish and when you nourish it grows, and when it grows and strengthens, when you strengthen what there is that you do not like, what you call defect decreases, it goes away , so if you have to invest in something is in your look, its qualities. Make a list, I have this good, I have this good, I have this good, dammit, I’m good! Wow, I’m good, I’m good, I’m awesome! That’s it, and you will see that you will not even have to come out screaming it, you’ll breathe it out through your energy field with the people around you. It’s amazing the process, so let’s make a list of energy.