Today we will talk about relationship, about love as a two-way street. A way that goes and a way that comes. There is a movement in Tantra, original Tantra. Neo Tantra. You today, puts on the internet so “Tantra” and comes a lot of bullshit. I’m talking about Neo-Tantra, the origin, the root.

It’s a movement that we call a “flush.” Where the couple places one hand to receive, the other hand to offer and make that move together with the partner or partner.
Because there must be giving and receiving. Love to people nourishes.
If you nurture, you also need to be nurtured, otherwise a relationship will never work, if there is no balance, that relationship is bound to fail.

You can be sure, if you give, and give, and give, and give you will think like this: “Wow, this person who is giving, who is giving, and who is giving everything, the person is going to dry, getting nothing, is not it?
But not only that, the other can not stand either. Because he’s feeling so small, so small that even without realizing it, he picks it up and goes out of it quickly. If you stop to think, you will see that it has several stories of the type: “I did everything and the other went away, did not even look back to say thank you.” Because he neither condition to understand what was happening he has, he simply He needs to get out of there, he goes into despair and leaves.

So often a relationship one of the two thinks that the more you give yourself and the more you do, the more the other will be there. It is not!
If there is no balance of exchange your relationship is doomed to failure. There needs to be a balance, if you give you need to receive. Listen to what I’m saying is the most serious thing I’m talking about. Many, many, and many relationships that end, when the person sometimes seeks me because she wants to take care, she wants to make some calls to get through this difficult phase of separation, very clearly for me it becomes obvious, it is very clear to me that that generated the end of the relationship was the lack of balance of exchange. There was no such two-way street. It is required, it is required. If it goes, it has to come back, if not, you die dry and another one does not support and goes away without understanding why.

It’s just unbearable. So, do you want to nurture your relationship? Do you want your relationship to get better and better? Equilibrium of exchange … Equilibrium of exchange. Nurture yes, put good things, nice things, lots of love and lots of joy in your relationship, but wait to receive, talk to your partner. How can this balance happen? Stop giving, if necessary, stop offering, if necessary, for a loving balance in this loving relationship.

My love, it’s a tip for you that I decided to bring because I realized in a statistic of the people that I answer that, practically 90% of the relationships are destroyed by lack of this balance.
So, look at yours and try to maintain that balance. It’s very, very important.