Criticism is welcome. Tyranny Never!

Today we will talk about criticism and tyranny. Because? Criticism is something that is welcome, not necessarily criticism is something bad. The problem is when one confuses this with tyranny. What is tyranny? That’s when the other tries to manipulate you in a tyrannical way. Sometimes it goes to the last consequences to point out defects, mistakes and people your mind, your day to day life with a lot of bad.

You need to understand that we all, absolutely all of us, have many qualities and do things that we did not want to do, or that we do not like to do, that are our wounded qualities that we call defects. But from the moment that we have in our company someone who only points in us bad and negative things, life becomes a hell. You are under a tyrannical command. And you need to have that attention.

First that the tyrannical he has a problem with himself. He thinks there’s nothing good about it. Then he starts to point everything from bad, to what there is not bad on the other, to feel a little better with himself. The problem is when you are exposed to this tyranny and do not even notice. You have someone you love very much, the person says, “Your cough is irritating.” Then he makes a joke: “You’re so fat,” “hair down,” “that smell bad” …

The person starts talking all the time, even playing bad things you have, in her opinion. Because neither is in your opinion, it is in her opinion. But your life is becoming hell. So it’s very important that we look very openly about it so we can protect these people. Because these people should not fit into people’s lives.

These people destroy people’s lives, whether they are conscious or not. Sometimes they are not bad people, but they are so negative and they are pointing, they are looking for details, you have prepared a beautiful table, it is perfect and she arrives and sees a piece of paper that is there in the middle of that table. So it does not say, “What a beautiful table”. She says, “What a beautiful table, but there’s a little piece of paper there.” So cautions are welcome, tyranny is not. Get out there.