Today we will talk about opinions, the looks that come from outside. But, the looks that come from outside into your relationship. Relationship is made up of very good things, good things, not so good things, always every relationship.

No relationship is just 100% of everything good, everything I wanted. And these differences are often healthy, give a seasoning, give a tempo to your relationship. But then, a person arrives and says: “Have you noticed how your partner, your partner gets bored with ease?” There inside your head makes a “PLIM”.

Your attention is drawn to that detail. Your partner gets bored easily. And then you start to see it everywhere, everywhere. Is it because there is only this? No. It’s because your attention is on it, and it begins to invade and affect the relationship. So, even if your friend or family friend wants to help you, often when he says something bad about your partner, your partner will always question you.

Okay, it has that and that’s fine, but it has a lot of other good things. Because everything you put your attention on will grow. And this often destroys a relationship. You have to be careful. Relationship is a balance of good things, very good things, not so good things, this is a healthy relationship.

Do not let the opinions of others turn your attention to what your partner has of not so good. Because he has something not so good. Your partner has a lot of things that are not so good, but your focus should be on what is good. In what is cool, and the rest there is yes, but only, ok. This preserves the relationship, this maintains a healthy relationship.

And when someone says something bad about your partner, your partner, you ask, “Why are you saying that?” And often it will break the sequence of the bad intention of the other, even if the other is not even aware that it is with bad intention.