We talk about patience. How long must I endure, how long must I endure? You see, patience equals forgiveness. You should always have, because patience. When you look, it seems that patience is for the other. It seems that patience brings a benefit to the other. Until the back, but the patience, the focus of it must be you.

What benefit does patience bring to you? Countless. I’m not talking about bearing, I’m not talking about you putting on armor and saying, “I’m going to take it.” No, I’m talking about having patience, even breathing and relaxing about it, trying to have a loving, affectionate look in certain situations Try to understand the other.

But, understand. You see, because there we have a but. Always, always have patience. Always, always forgive indefinitely. This will bring you peace, this will bring you balance, this will bring you self-love. Now, and accept the other in my life? That’s different. There’s a limit there.

Because if what the other does harm me, if what the other does makes me bad, if I talk badly does not do well, if what the other does not do me good. And I’ve already tried to deal with it, let the other go. Let go, let the person follow his course, his way and will be happy. “Leia, it hurts.” But it hurts to be with the other too, in certain situations.

The limit of your pain, maybe you are. Until when is it possible, who knows you. For me the limit comes as long as it does not hurt me. If it hurts me, there is no more limit. I think this is healthy. Because if you do not like you, you do not like the other. We’ve talked about it here too. It’s not love, it’s lack. Patience always. You have a relationship problem, have love, have compassion, have patience, always forgive.

Now even when the other will continue doing this in your life, it is different. Look with love, with affection for yourself too, and define your limit. Define how far you go, when you go. And let the other go with patience and forgiveness.