Stop slowing down. You Need to Find Your Value!
Today I came to tell you that there are only subjects if there is a King. Why am I saying this? Because in many comments we see people complaining. They claim that the other treats them as if they were a servant of the time of the feudal lords.
That person the other humbles and treats like trash. It is treating you the way you stand. There is only king if there is a subject. If there is no subject, there is no king. There is only master of slaves, if there is a slave. If there is no slave, there is no slave master. You need to understand that sometimes you put yourself in the place of a servant.
I’m not talking about a balanced relationship here, where you give a lot of love, a lot of affection, a lot of affection and a lot of love, a lot of affection, a lot of affection. No, I’m talking here about unbalanced relationships. which goes to the extreme. Where you become a server and you serve, and serve, and serve and do not want the other to treat you as a server. If you are acting as a server, do you want the other to treat you like? “Oh, what a wonderful person, you do everything for me”? Difficult. Rare.
The other may even begin to do so, but soon he forgets. This becomes so banal, it feels so king. As I said in another video, they feel so “the last wafer in the package”. Why you made him feel that way. Get some of what you’re doing to him, to her and to you. take some of this commitment, of this service, of that love and brings it to you at least. Because this has to change its shape.
There is no relationship that can stand. Relationships need to balance in love. And the relationship in which you are always serving whether you are working, whether you bow your head, or with money in any way, is doomed to failure. Seek balance in your relationship. Only then will you save your relationship.
Do not complain that the other is treating as an object if you become available as an object. You need to give yourself the courage. You need to give yourself love, just so you can get it on the other side of there too, be it the other or who else. We’re not just talking about a couple relationship, no. Stay tuned.