How to get out of warm relationships?
We are going to talk about warm relationships today. Many times your relationship will go away, if it is destroyed, because it has become lukewarm, meaningless. And you come to think that you do not even love the other because you stopped cultivating that kind of relationship. This relationship of love.
This is not just for couples, no. In fact, most of what I put here is not just for a couple, it’s for all kinds of relationships. And how do you fall into a warm relationship? For the eye in the eye, you to your state of presence, you no longer hear the other is speaking and you are already thinking about what will respond. Cellphone, tablet, technology …
If you are with the other you are with the other, give quality of presence to the other. You may not be able to give a very large amount of presence, give quality, be present, look into the eyes, listen to what the other speaks. Speak for the other to listen, hand in hand, breath. Pay attention to your breathing while you are with another. Do you know what will happen? You notice in the other beautiful things, which you had already forgotten.
Because that distance generated oblivion. People relationship has to be hot. Relationship has it full of love. And I’m not saying that you are relating to the person and have to have the same passion at the beginning, because the passion it comes at the beginning, comes all covered from one not knowing, from one not knowing how the other is. And over time you get to know each other. But you do not know everything, just because you are not in this present state.
How many couples are together, and they are not. Is it bad to be together? You unlearned. Reapply. Have the least education. Education does it. Be with the other. Listen to the other one. Really talk to each other. You will see how it will change. “Oh my relationship is not funny.” Give it a try. Talk to your partner, your partner, your child, your daughter.
With your mother, your father, and you invest in it, mute. You may not spend so much time together, but it takes a little time, like this. You see change. This is a tip for you.