Today I am going to tell you the following, do not confuse love with lack. Love and lack are totally, utterly different things. When you say like this: ” But I hurt too much, I did everything, I do everything for the other ” grace, this is not love. A needy person, she will always deposit in the other the hope of the return of the love she needs, unfortunately this is the reality. You do and donate to the other, it is not that you do not love the other, you love the other, but what you are doing, too much saturates the other.

 It is as if you put molasses in the other and you are taking away from you, because otherwise, your phrase would not be this, you see? If not your phrase would be: ” I give love to the other, but I do not give everything to the other ” I do not live by the other, I do not do everything for the other, my choice is in favor of the other. Is that you? Stay where? Little one? dropped, thrown. What are you doing for yourself? Your phrase may be I give, I love, but I’m happy with it, if it comes in a tone of complaint, if it comes in the tone of ” I can not take it anymore! ” It’s lack, it’s not love.

 No one can love the other if he does not love himself, what you are giving to the other, what you do not have inside you, how? Where? There is not! There is no way … You can only give love to each other if it is within you, love. And love you, for you. It’s not the other’s love for you. You have to be full, overflowing with love, so that this love can go to the other, but what goes is lack.

And many relationships, are sabotaged like that. If you stop and pay attention, you’ll hear a lot of people talk like that, when the relationship ends: ” I gave my all, I completely gave up, I did everything for him, and he left ” That’s how you hear the phrase, exactly, it’s gone. The other one’s gone! He could not stand you, the need that you were throwing on him, thinking it was love. He thought you were doing more than your obligation, he did not give you a shred of value, turned his back and left. Because? why, you were not giving yourself a shred of value. And many relationships at this level still stretch out of pity, look how sad.

 And they stretch as far as you can go, and there’s a time that does not work. So it’s not that you can not do the other, do it! but, do it for yourself first, put yourself first, prioritize, love yourself and then yes, do for the other. You will see your relationship flowing, okay?