Hi, my love, how are you? The other day Cintia asked me this, “when should I forgive?” and made it clear that it was not treason motive right. And when you talk about forgiving, it seems that betrayal is the most serious thing a relationship can do, and it depends on meaning because there are various types of betrayal. And the betrayal of our partner is with another person may not be the worst betrayal, you may have other types of betrayal. And when should I forgive?
Ever! Absolutely, totally, always! Everytime. What you need to understand is that forgiving is not the same as accepting. That’s the difference. Forgive always.

 Forgiveness is not for the other, you do not forgive to do good to the other, you forgive to do well for yourself, because as long as you do not forgive, you are imprisoned, you are imprisoned in resentment with that person so forgive always, all Sometimes, but only accept in your life what makes you well. Forgive and let the other go live his life. Attempting someone else’s judgment, disturbing another person, causing another person to suffer, not you anymore. That’s the difference.

 Now, accept, when should I accept the other in my life? Did the other miss? Everybody misses. Is it possible for the other to change, not to err? Absolutely, absolutely. “Oh, so, should I forgive and accept?” It depends, it depends on the level of hurt it caused you. First, is it possible to live with it, is it possible to dissolve this within me? So it is possible. I can accept this person in my life. This mistake that the person has made, she has committed a lot of other times, because if it is recurrent, the more times the person makes the mistake, the more difficult it is for them to commit. That’s a fact, I’m not saying that, is it? These are studies that indicate. “Ah, it’s the first time,” it’s easier not to commit.

 So it is important questions that you have to do to allow the person to continue living in your life, and depending on what the person did, forget, will be happy, forgive, accept and will be happy. She does not remember randomly, if at all possible, it depends on what she did. Now to forgive my love. and always. But, stay in our life … Do you understand the difference of forgiving and accepting? That’s it! Forgive always! Accept not always, but it is possible yes. There are a lot of relationships, sometimes I am in a service, the person brings things that the other has done, and it is possible to recover, and it is possible to forgive, and it is possible to accept and that person never again makes the relationship flow beautifully, . I’m here cheering for you.